Saturday, April 17, 2010

two yeaR letteR...

Dear Merit Fey,


Last month you turned two. TWO! It is hard to believe that your baby days are over (I loved your baby days), but these days are just as fun. With each new phase that you enter, I can't help but think it is my new favorite. I'm sure that someday when you are able to read back through these letters to you, you will see that I say that each and every time. I just love you so much, baby girl. I love holding your hand as we walk. I love how you sometimes put your hand on your cheek as you point to something you think is exciting. I love your curls. I love it all.


One of my favorite things about two-year-old Merit is having little conversations with you and hearing your sweet voice make words and sentences. One of the things we hear most often from you is, "What doin'?" When we are in the car, our conversation usually goes something like this:

Merit: Mama, what doin'?
Mama: I'm driving. What are you doing?
Merit: I sit in seat. (a few seconds later) Mama, what doin'?
Mama: Still driving. What are you doing?

And, usually, what you are doing is getting ready to ask me what I am doing again. You especially like to ask the check-out people at stores what they are doing. They usually get a kick out of it...especially when you ask for the 3rd or 4th time. You are also always sure to tell them, "Bye! See ya soon!" before we head out the door. I love how you always seem to make the day of so many, including your Daddy and me.


And you are as polite as they come. You remember to say thank you even when I don't, and when we thank you for something, you answer with a sweet, "Thankum" (welcome). You love saying, "Sess you" when someone sneezes, and if someone is in your way, you'll offer a little "Scu me." If you forget to say please, we'll ask, "What do you say?" And you'll respond, "I say peas." I'm sure that has something to do with your Texas roots. :)


Some of our favorite things that you say:
Kyna spicy - (kinda spicy) Spicy is probably my favorite word of yours right now. You always use it in the right context, and you sound SO cute when you say it....you even look cute because you squint your eyes a little when you say "spicy".
O-KAY!! - When we offer something to you that you are excited about, you will always answer with an emphatic, "O-kay!" If we mention that we are going to go somewhere, you'll say, "O-KAY! Let's go! Let's do it!"
I anna wash Idol - (I wanna watch Idol, as in American Idol) You will say this at random times throughout the day. You love music and anything having to do with it, so it is no surprise that watching Idol every week is a favorite of yours.
Meh-ut - (Merit) I have always loved hearing anyone say your name, but I especially love hearing you say it. You have started introducing yourself (and us) to strangers. "Hi! I Meh-ut. Thas Mama. Thas Daddy."
I yu you! - (I love you) Need I say more?
cassole - (castle) You think any big, pretty building is a castle. When we drive up to our church, you say, "Look! It's my cassole!"


Watching you learn everyday is such a privilege. It is truly an amazing experience. You can name all of your letters (with the exception of one or two), numbers, colors, and most shapes. I have heard you count to 13. You usually won't count when we ask you to, but you count things on your own all the time. Here is a video of you a few months ago when we had first starting working on your letters. I can't believe how much you have already changed since then. Not only do you know more letters, but your voice is already a little older sounding, and your face looks more like a little girl's and less like a baby's. (Sigh.) I could watch this video over and over.


You have, of course, grown and changed so much in the last 6 months. They have been a fun 6 months...

September - 18 month Chair and Bear pic

October - cute little gnome for your 2nd Halloween

November - We moved to a house - the first actual house we have lived in since your Daddy and I got married.

November - We celebrated our 5th anniversary, and I spent my first night away from you since you were born.

November - We visited your uncle Matt and aunt Nikki for Thanksgiving. This was your first of what will hopefully be many trips to Colorado.

December - We found out that you are going to be a big sister!

December - You loved this year's ornament - none other than your best bud Elmo!

December - "Ho Ho" came to visit you at our house!

December - Christmas in Jackson with the Albright side of your family

December - Christmas in Abilene with the Wallace side of your family

January - the first of many snows this winter in Nashville

January - You had your first stomach virus this month and shared it with your Daddy and I. I took this picture when we finally got out of the house after being stuck for a week because of both the snow and the stomach bug.

February - We took a trip to Abilene where it also snowed. You built your first snowman with Nina, PaPa, Macy, and Zoey.
Macy taught you how to do snow angels.

And March! - You turned two with a fun candy party! I absolutely loved putting that party together for you.

Your first Chair and Bear pic ever and your two-year Chair and Bear pic.






















And there ya have it, baby girl. Another year has come and gone. I loved the tiny newborn Merit whose big eyes took in everything around her. I loved the chubby baby Merit who learned to crawl and discovered that her world was bigger than the blanket laid out on the living room floor. I loved the fun toddler Merit who communicated everything through squeals and laughs as she unsteadily walked throughout the house. And I now love beautiful little girl Merit - loving us and others through your sweet words and actions. I can't wait to see you become a big sister this year. Your little sister is going to adore you just as much as we do, and you are simply going to fall in love with her. I just know it. I pray that you two will be the best of friends. One last time, Happy 2nd Birthday, Merit Fey. We love you, oh, so very much.

5 comments:

kristin fulghum said...

what a cutie! so adorable that she already knows her letters!

erin f. said...

So so sweet Sharon...I think that you are blessed to have her and that she is blessed to have you! What a sweet way with words you have...

The video is precious...that girl is SMART! Grayer is 2 (as of 2 days ago) and he doesn't talk. Like at all. However, he can ride a bike...like with no training wheels. Amazing. He did ride up on his little bike the other day and say "baby" perfectly to Ellie. He said it 4 or 5 more times and then never again! Anyway, I am that much more impressed that she knows those letters. SMART little girl. That has to make the school teacher in you so proud!

Kyla said...

So, so cute and sweet. (sigh) This post brings out that achy feeling in me that you get as a mommy who understands the feeling of your baby growing up too fast. It also makes me panic a little bit that I'm not doing a good enough job of writing down the cute things that Ava says and did say at that age and I'm scared of forgetting them! You are right that Merit is growing out of that baby stage but my advice to you as a mom of a three year old now....RELISH this year having Merit as a two year old. She is still way more of a baby than you may realize. When she turns THREE, then you will long for the 'baby' in her that was present when she was 2. I remember feeling so sad when Ava started pronouncing words correctly and not saying them the way she used to when she was 2. :( I LOVE the way Merit is talking right now! Adorable. And way to go Merit on knowing your letters!

allyo said...

Merit is beautiful. I am super excited about your new baby girl on the way. I've been so out of the loop! There is something so special about sisters. I am due August 21 too! We are having a baby boy.

HoboBaby said...

No way that is the same bear in the last pictures! She is so beautiful!